What is Trauma?

I offer a caring and research-based approach to treating trauma, dissociation, depersonanlization, PTSD, and C-PTSD.   

There are common misunderstandings about what trauma is.  Traumatic experiences are often minimized and glossed-over, but the effects carry on long after the event.  See below for descriptions of the different types of trauma.

Essential ingredients for healing trauma in therapy include:

• being believed by your therapist.
• a compassionate and empathetic therapist.
• not feeling pushed or rushed.
• feeling safe in therapy.
• feeling your therapist is emotionally attuned and respects your boundaries.
• feeling your therapist has the skills to offer you the support you need.
• feeling understood and validated.
• sharing about parts of therapy you like and do not like so changes are made to best fit you.

The three phases of trauma therapy include:  

1. Building Safety, Calming and Coping Skills.
2. Processing Trauma Material to Bring Healing (this will look different for each person depending on level of comfort and level of recall).
3. Future Plans for Growth (Post Traumatic Thriving).

I offer EMDR (online) therapy for those interested. 

TYPES OF TRAUMA

Primary trauma is ANY EVENT that exceeded your capacity to cope.  

Secondary trauma is not having the support you needed after the event happened.

Common Types of Trauma

Betrayal Trauma.  Being betrayed by a loved one where trust is broken.  For example, being cheated on or being abused by your partner.

Complex Trauma.  Repetitive harm, multiple events. 

Developmental Trauma.  Chronic family trauma.  This might include having a parent with mental illness or substance abuse, losing a parent, witnessing domestic violence, emotional neglect, not having the basic necessities, and or direct verbal, physical, spiritual or sexual abuse. 

Single-Incident Trauma: Examples may include a car accident, tornado, death of a loved one, bullying, or physical, sexual assault, or financial crisis. 

Traumatic Grief.  A traumatic reaction after a death where responses are severe or prolonged and interfere with daily functioning.